I've begun to keep a gratitude journal for my wife. It's something I heard Darren Hardy talk about on a Success CD.
What I am doing is everyday I write one to three specific things I am grateful for about my wife. It may be her personality, her character or specific acts for which I am grateful.
I'm going to give it to her on her birthday.
It has definitely been good for me already to focus on my lady's many wonderful attributes. It makes me feel privileged to be married to her.